Are You Trying to Get Everyone to Like You?

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You can't do two things at once. Enjoy the Legos because in a year from now, your six-year-old might not like Legos anymore. What did you use to spend time on that you now see as unhelpful or a waste of time? Trying to get everybody to like me. I think we can all relate to that.

Social psychologist Emily Balcetis has devoted her career to understanding how people’s perceptions of the world fuel their motivations and life goals. In this episode she goes in-depth on that wealth of research, what she’s learned from studying some of the world’s most successful people and how they set goals, and how you can get better results in life if you change the way you see the world and where you place your focus. Balcetis is an Associate Professor of Psychology at New York University (NYU), focused on how the motivations, emotions, needs, and goals people hold impact the basic ways people perceive, interpret, and ultimately react to information around them. She is also the author of the book Clearer, Closer, Better: How Successful People See the World, which was released in 2020. --

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