The Relationship Between Me and My Husband

She didn't lift a finger for around a month. Then she began asking why we never went on dates anymore and complaining that she wanted to get her nails done as they were growing in. I explained that I had to take that out of our budget so we could continue to afford everything else but we could absolutely have a movie night in and I could paint her nails for her. She was unhappy with that solution so I asked her if she would want to get a part-time job to pay for her luxuries. You would have thought I asked if she wanted to join a cult. He stopped making as much money to do the chores. Am I the asshole? Wow! It's gray