Ep. 370 - Rewriting Your Patterns: How to Handle Tests with Self-Worth
EXPANDED Podcast by To Be Magnetic™
Navigating Personal Tests for Growth
This chapter explores the challenges individuals face regarding self-worth and relationships, illustrating how life experiences can mirror deeper emotional themes. The speakers highlight the importance of recognizing patterns, understanding one's responses, and leveraging community support as tools for personal development. Through structured approaches and reframing perspectives, they encourage listeners to see life's tests as opportunities for growth and insight.
Are you being tested? Life is full of those frustrating moments—an unexpected bill, a toxic job dynamic, or an unaligned romantic suitor. This episode is your pick-me-up on how to navigate tests and what they really mean in manifestation terms. Lacy and Jessica share that tests aren’t here to punish us—they’re here to show if we’re truly ready for what we’re calling in. Each test reflects our subconscious self-worth, asking us to notice old patterns and choose differently this time. Through live channelings, grounded insights, and real-time examples, they walk you through the TBM approach to moving through life’s tests with clarity and power. Because your manifestations are already orbiting, and every test is the universe knocking to see if you’re ready to receive it.
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In This Episode We Talk About:
- Tests are growth checkpoints, not punishment
- The universe matches your subconscious self-worth, not your conscious desires
- “A test is just the universe knocking to see what you want to receive” —Lacy Phillips
- Tests highlight inner looping—patterns you’re ready to outgrow
- If you don’t pass a test, it will lovingly return until you’re ready
- Expansion is the key to making new choices aligned with your highest self
- Reframe “failing” a test as simply showing where more work is needed
- Use the TBM protocol: Pause, Reframe, Review
- External frustrations often mirror subconscious beliefs
- Interruptions can be tests or reminders—like Lacy’s parenting moment mid-episode
- Not all patterns can be unblocked alone—therapy (like EMDR) may be needed
- The difference between standing up for yourself and walking away depends on your past pattern
- Don’t put tests on a pedestal—stay grounded in your intuition
- The collective shift through 2027 is creating space for new structures and ways of being
- TBM’s book launch is breaking conventional structures—mirroring the energy of the episode
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HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips
(with exercises by Jessica Gill)
Coming October 21st!
The Expanded Podcast is the top manifestation podcast hosted by Lacy Phillips, founder of To Be Magnetic, and co-hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer, Jessica Gill. Rooted in TBM’s Neural Manifestation™ process, the show blends neuroscience, psychology, epigenetics, and energetics with a touch of spirituality to help you manifest and step into your most authentic self.
Each episode features TBM teachings, community stories, and tools to reprogram the subconscious, heal your inner child, and reclaim your worth. We explore astrology, human design, internal family systems, and more to shift your energetic blueprint.
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