There's an assumption that a human being knows what their attachments o which the chances are we don't. The key thing to remember about dating aps is what they actually offer and what they deliver. They may be great for hookups or things like that, but i think ther's a lot of good stuff they're for. I think the challenge is that they claim to be good. We use them looking for a particular thing, and it doesn't give us that thing,. Then we get really frustrated by it, because we had this assumption that they were good for that particular thing.