The Sex Positive Vibe in the City

I think withholding sex is kind of a weird cookie thing where it's like okay what exactly did we you know are we doing here. Most of these women essentially thought okay this is the standard this is what's expected of me. It needs to be explained and after you go through heartbreak like this when people break up with you feel likeOkay my bargaining chips here are very low so I'll just essentially do whatever you know I think is expected of me whenever. A lot of those people were their looks matches and I think that's also much more common than then the discourse has on dating apps.