The Importance of Connecting Before Correcting

The notion behind this is that you connect before you correct so that you can mindfully be aware of what it is that you want to happen between one another. By connecting first, that allows the child to down-regulate or to actually then the child can hear. When you connect to somebody in the emotions that they're having first, their whole body connects to you more. Now that I've connected to you, we're more connected, I'll be able to be more open to whatever detail you're going to give me. It's related to the coal and that's the openness.