i keep thinking of the documentary happy am, which is so good. It opens with man from india who's a um, what's the what are they called? And he's like, i'm happy. Well, it's separation. The more successful you get, the less happy you get, right? Because you're just getting more and more separate. So if you don't need to be in relationship, even though you need relationship, you won't do it. Most of us would rather watch tiger king and eat lo n the es us how it is. That's the only time you'll see that. You can think of ean gams yet, with thick gams