Intro

Listen to the full episode:  https://youtu.be/NrHBimydPBU?si=mI2cLamva379hWMy 

Why do 70% of personal trainers sleep with their clients, and how does this statistic explain why most fitness professionals never build real wealth? In this Fitness Friday episode on the Habits and Hustle podcast, Adam Schafer from Mind Pump drops truth bombs about what separates successful trainers from those who plateau at $40K a year.

We unpack the psychology of professional boundaries, why "motivation is bullshit but self-belief is everything," and how the same insecurities that lead to sleeping with clients also trap people in toxic relationship patterns. 

Adam Schafer is the business strategist behind Mind Pump Media, a fitness podcast generating over $10 million annually. With eight national certifications, a pro-card in bodybuilding, and experience managing some of the largest fitness clubs in the Bay Area, his greatest achievement remains creating a media empire that disrupted the entire fitness industry.

What we discuss:

• Why trainers sleeping with clients is second only to hospitals for workplace affairs

• How breaking professional boundaries costs you the highest-paying, long-term clients

• Why your peers lose respect and won't work for someone who crosses these lines

• "Motivation is bullshit, self-belief is everything" - the mindset shift that creates success

• Breaking addiction to "broken people" - how ego-feeding relationships mirror bad business choices

• The confidence factor: Why self-belief matters more than looks, talent, or connections

• Why successful people keep dating the wrong people despite self-awareness

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Podcast: https://mindpumppodcast.com/

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