Is It Better to Walk Away or Lose Something?

After my marriage ended, i decided that's it. I have to change. Something has to change, and it has to be me. The less you are afraid to walk away or lose something, the more power you have. You can be assertive without fear. When you are not afraid of losing something we like or love, we don't stand up for ourselves. We end up getting things that we don't want. All because we're afraid that we're going to lose something that we want. That was my quest, my challenge and my healing. And ever since then, it's been so much lighter, so much better. Even when i was single, life was better.