The Bonding of Marriage

The chemicals that are released during sexual activity which are designed to bond you with this person so that it is almost like in in in mid-summonite stream the sprinkling of fairy dust whatever. The one flashness we have tended I think I have tended in in thinking about that over the years to think of it almost as a legalistic thing will you know one flesh there it is but actually a CS Lewis says somewhere that when a man lies with the woman let's just keep it at heterosexual for the moment then there is a bond set up between them and he makes that a sort of a mystical almost supernatural thing.