Ep. 247 - Transforming and Pivoting At Any Age - The Process with Barby White
EXPANDED Podcast by To Be Magnetic™
The Importance of Being Plugged Into the Work
"I was always doing what I tell my kids to do, which is put your head down and do the next right thing," she says. "So when all the ego fell away from my list, I was like, okay, well, this is too easy." She's had a lot of big things manifest in her life but feels that they could be more vague if you're not looking for them now. 'You are where you are when you're there'
“Old” is not a bad word. Getting older is not scary. Forget college! 50+ is the real-time of your life! This episode is about to blow up all the preconceived notions you have about getting older. Process guest, Barby White, a member of our wise community, is coming on the podcast to inspire the hell out of every single one of us. When she started unapologetically putting herself first, her life transformed. Barby and Jessica cover topics we’ve never had the chance to discuss on this podcast. How do you transition from being a stay-at-home mom with 3 kids into being an empty nester who finds fulfillment in the role of being a mom? How do you find expanders who are over 50 (and probably not on social media)? How do you navigate the pervasive guilt of motherhood? They even talk about the ways ego may be secretly driving your manifestation, how being over 50 is actually awesome, and how pings can be delivering what seems to be the most mundane message (like: clean out your storage closet!). Everyone of all ages will get deep expansion from this episode. Huge thank you to Barby for opening her world to us! This is a good one, y’all.
Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast
In This Episode We Talk About:
- The remarkable manifestation of Pathway and Wise member Barby!
- How Barby used TBM work to reinvent herself later in life
- Her cultural upbringing and how it informs her viewpoint today
- The transition from raising children to focusing on your own needs
- Pings, tests, breakthroughs!
- The importance of being realistic with your first manifestations
- Barby’s manifestation list & authentic code and how they have evolved
- Finding expanders in their 50’s and 60’s
- The secret of manifestation
- Boundaries with family members
- The energetic power of the word “no”
- Embracing the magic of later chapters in life!
- Clearing space, navigating regret, valuing time
- TBM workshop and DI recommendations from Barby!
THEMES / TIME STAMPS:
- How Barby discovered TBM and started her manifestation journey (00:14:06)
- The energetics of focusing on your own needs after raising children (00:35:20)
- Finding age-appropriate expanders later in life! (01:02:25)
Resources:
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- TBM The Wise
- The Expanded Podcast: The Process Series
- Melissa Wood Health
- Expanded x Ep. 111: Melissa Wood on The Quest To Become Enough
- Anne Lamott (author)
- Start Where You Are: A Journey for Self-Exploration - Meera Lee Patel (book)
Where To Find Us!
Other Resources
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HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips
(with exercises by Jessica Gill)
Coming October 21st!
The Expanded Podcast is the top manifestation podcast hosted by Lacy Phillips, founder of To Be Magnetic, and co-hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer, Jessica Gill. Rooted in TBM’s Neural Manifestation™ process, the show blends neuroscience, psychology, epigenetics, and energetics with a touch of spirituality to help you manifest and step into your most authentic self.
Each episode features TBM teachings, community stories, and tools to reprogram the subconscious, heal your inner child, and reclaim your worth. We explore astrology, human design, internal family systems, and more to shift your energetic blueprint.
Past guests include leading voices like Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest.
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