There's really no harm done in believing. Where we start to enter into harmful spaces is when we're not believing people. And the last thing i would say is, reserve judgment. Nobody needs judgment. There's never really a good space. We can offer constructive feedback. I think lot if some people who listen to the podcat are disappointed about that version of me. In around two thousand and 18 i made a conscious effort to switch my language from tht's crazy to that's fascinating. It's kind of the same thing a, right? Like all men, like, i like to put hot sauce in my cereal. That's shu's crazy, but's also really fascinating