When You Stop Speaking, You're Still Living Out Your Thoughts

When we're listening, we're living out our thoughts. We're just letting the snow globe of our own minds settle. To get the most effective way of speaking is very similar to music. Just like in music, silence is as important as the notes,. Ifyo, if you have music that never stops, it's heavy. There is space between notes, and there are moments of to make it complete. That's speaking. You sometimes say that a, you're in control of the train, as an analogy for speaking. Can you explain to people what that actually means?