You Have to Hold Some Kind of Power Over That Person

The biblical thing is that you always take that directly to the person and you should take it to your upline. Even if Jesus said it, he doesn't necessarily mean he's talking about your exact situation in the same way. And so, and so... Boy, can I just put a bookmark in there to say that thing's been talked about a lot about even in this context here? Like, that is about a very specific type of community in a very specific context and very specific power dynamics that do exist.