Ep 16 — Jacob Ham, PhD — Anger and Attachment
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The Relationship Between a Fearful Avoidance and Dismissive Avoidance in Adulthood
Men in our society are oftentimes socialized not to express emotion, to avoid and so it probably lends itself more commonly in men to have this avoidance tils. And i think that the research showed that a japanese people have a higher rate uf avoidant attach. So what about the preoccupied, anxious people? What happens there? Their interviews go on and on and on. They just forget that you're in front of them. The way that i can understand it is that in your head, win like vulnerability gets triggered. Then there's almost a psychic reaching out towards your mam to make you feel better. That immediately generates both yearning, but anger. And then
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