I've kind of been feeling that a lot recently just with like making a big life decision friendships ending relationships ending yeah and just feeling pretty down on myself about how come I couldn't have anticipated the outcomes of some of my actions a little bit better but at the end of the day I think this is just such a learning period in everyone's life if you're around the same age as me which I'm guessing you are if you're listening to this podcast. Changing your mind frame is so important away from you know I failed I fail I failed like what did I learn here. There's never chapters it's just one big life one big story you know chapters needed anyhow sorry just using this