malina: It's very possible that you perceive setting your boundaries as an asshold to the people around you. That's possiblel because i've seen that too, where someone's like, i talked to doctor ka, and i must set my own boundaries. And my own boundaries means you can go fuot yourself. So this is wherelike, it takes practice between being a push over and being an asol or somewhere in the middle. But frankly, what you said, i think makes a lot of sense, at least with the streamer person."