Soye told that story to shane on the podcast Hello world. She says she was in love with a woman, and they were hanging out in singapore. Soye: "I got like some bug of something in my head that like bothered me about something she said" But when she woke up in the morning, i said, sorry, i'm going to get out o here on a plane,. We're done. And so i coldly left. Shane: A couple months later,  that same friend that gave me advice on what to do in that moment, was doing some reading about relationships and going to see a councillor for help.