i think it's when you truly enjoy what you do for work, and then you have time to do things that you do outside of work. If you really, really love your work, or at least you enjoy it most of the time,  you can fill the other parts of your day with more happiness. And i also want to recommend a very funny book that i read lately. It's called a are you there, vodka? It's written by chelsea hambler. I love things that makes me laugh. All right, this will go, as many other things, inthe show notes as well. So if you adin if you didn't gete the title