The Giver

CA reminds me, we had Jana Johnson spangler on our podcast and she talked about the Enneagram. She said when she tries to help LDS women type themselves what are you number one through nine? A lot of women mistype themselves as number two as the giver because that was the box that we were put in, which is this is what women do is they give it's that whole selfless thing. And I think oftentimes women's identities are becomes subsumed by them the man that they're with. Oh absolutely. Yeah. It's just like I can't remember I think maybe you talked to someone but or maybe it was just a view about like Colleagues