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The Importance of Being the One Initiating
A lot of couples do these kinds of things and I get it if the person is feeling like if you initiate my mind is so reactive that I don't feel in control anymore. The goal is how can I hold on to my sense of self and my ability to be a chooser even while knowing what my spouse wants, she says. "It actually keeps the couple from growing into a deeper ability to collaborate"