How to Build Confidence

The real act of confidence comes from doing something, the act of doing something that you're proud of. But if you're cutting off our ability to do that by getting all this immediate gratification, then of course I'm going to rely on external validation. And so then I'm being validated through my actions. So then I can actually take credit for it for forgetting the validation. Right? That's where confidence comes from. You can't have confidence. If you're not actively going out, becoming the person that you need to be to get what you want. The process of continually getting more and more of what you want through the work that you're putting in is where real confidence is built