The Costs of Compulsory Sexuality

Sally Kohn: "So much of my sexuality was wrapped up in what I thought sexuality was for girlhood, you know? And I don't even know back then if I knew how to stop" She says the idea of sexual liberation has just flipped the morality around sex instead of getting rid of the morality. The problem is we didn't get rid of the hierarchy, right? We kept the hierarchy in place. So this idea that now you should be having the most sex and that sex should be as unvanilla as possible. If you're not doing that, then you're not liberated, which is like this new sort of ideal that we're working towards. It makes people