Ben: I adore the way that they showed her reactions to it of like being supremely uncomfortable with being pampered the entire time and also going what the fuck does your family do. He says she doesn't have a fleshed out enough conversation about really what he's genuinely doing to her by putting her in this position because we're still just kind of talking about in the context of just money classism but even like my mom's really hard you know she has these really specific values that you're gonna bump against.