Your reward system is your brain giving yourself dopamine when you do things that are meant to keep you alive. When we ate food, our brains would give off dopamine pleasure and that taught us to seek nourishment so we didn't die. In the 21st century, all of these new things like porn gives off very concentrated doses of dopamine. Your brain thinks that pornography is like extra important because it's giving it way more dopamine. This is what creates over desire. Just because you have the over desire right now doesn't mean I'm stuck with this forever. We can train ourselves not to want it.
It today's episode we talk about over-desire. Over-desire is the reason that your urges feel automatic. Over-desire can be un-trained and un-learned. We talk about how in the show.
You'll also learn my method for deciding if someone is addicted to pornography or not. I define addiction as a behavior that keeps you from living a normal, functioning life. Many of you call yourselves addicts even though you don't fit this description. I talk about why that might be harmful to you in this episode.
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