How to Talk About People Without Being Offensed

This stuff is so difficult to talk about because i am such a generally respectful and do not want to offend or hurt any one's feelings. When you're talking too someone, it doesn't pronouns are out of theyou din t use pronouns. You'rehaving a conversation with somebody. And anyone can get down with that. T doesn't matter how they identify. But when you start talking about people, then they're like, wo if you're gong to bring me into this, bring me into it the way i want to be brought into it. I think its yo can have that discussion. It's purposely stabilizing. O its it's impossible for a regular person to know what