Are You a Therapist or a Parent?

I think my mother successfully avoided any kind of the psychoanalytic or kind of pathologizing stuff that I've heard other people grow up with therapists. And it's like they just sort of feel like their parents are automaton sometimes with with the theiropizing. But I do I am grateful that I have two pretty conscious parents and a pretty conscious step parent as well. My parents divorced when I was about 12, 13 years old. We have had our difficulties, you know, but I feel grateful that my parents have participated in in the coming of age and wrestling with them. So I feel grateful for the kind of shared growth.