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The Relational Work of Ejaculation
Our body doesn't really do a good job of distinguishing between feeling unsafe because there's a threat to our life and feeling unsafe because we feel like if we come too quickly. So that's where the, we might say psychological work comes in or the relational work comes in. Can you have a conversation with your partner and say, hey, if I do come, you know, before we're both ready, I want to let you know that like I'm still here. All right, I'm still wanting to explore pleasure with you.