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28. Not for the Self + Managing Your Expectations of a Partner

Not For Everyone

CHAPTER

The Two Polar Opposites in Dating

"I would give yourself a little more yeah like a little more grace for those situations but I agree with your original premise of like it sucks that there's these two polar opposite options in that situation," she says. "If you turn a guy down you're gonna like get hurt for it and I don't think it's a unique experience um but I was like publicly like shamed for it as an 11 year old", the writer adds. "[She] feels other people's feelings are priority above my own and it makes it hard."

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