Is Life Happening for You Not to You?

Wes Watson spent 10 years in the California penitentiary and he always says life is happening for you not to you. All of these things are gifts if you can see them that way to create this new resilient individual. The problem is sometimes it's very hard to see that in the moment, so quit waiting for that break and just get to work. It's really is yourself projected on them sometimes too isn't it?