"Having an agenda where what you're doings, saying, or your appearancef if it mis matches your agenda, that is the definition of creepy. So when guys come up in the lake, oh, hey, whered'd you get that handbag? It's creepy because they're devouring u an. Ladies who are listening to this will know they're devoured you with their eyes," she says. "I think that's part o tha way to avoid being creepy too, is to not have that agenda exactly."