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#214: Build a More Loving Relationship with Terry Real

The Mark Groves Podcast

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Relational Challenges

There's a hierarchy created in that. One person has lower desire, the other one feels shame. We're defensive is because we have to be goddamned perfect. If you h've any vulne it, you're not a real man. And so our partner comes and confronts us with some imperfection, we feel shame but don't have any tolerance for that. So we ward off the shame by warding off the imperfection, which mins o warner to go to hell. That its the it's them. Yet here's my if if i can play with it for bit,. everybody who comes in my office i write about this is what i call an essentialist. My

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