The most aspirational people are also the most nervous and anxious about how they appear to other people. If you want to be taken seriously, you have to sort of hit those markers. I've noticed that if i'm more outspoken about certain issues people are morewilling to be as well. The abeline paradox is an idea by jerry harvey who says there are three people trying to decide where we should go for dinner - one doesn't want a bautne; the second wants to travel while the third would rather stay at home with their family.
In this edition of Infinite Loops, we spoke with Rob Henderson. Rob is a veteran and a PhD candidate in Psychology, at the University of Cambridge. We talk about:
- Growing up in foster care and overcoming a "tough" childhood
- Role of a military stint in early adulthood
- Luxury beliefs
- Role of media in shaping identities
- America's export of cultural ideas
- and MUCH more!
Follow Rob on Twitter at https://twitter.com/robkhenderson and read his essays about the many aspects of human behavior here: https://www.robkhenderson.com/