Are You Insane?

The most aspirational people are also the most nervous and anxious about how they appear to other people. If you want to be taken seriously, you have to sort of hit those markers. I've noticed that if i'm more outspoken about certain issues  people are morewilling to be as well. The abeline paradox is an idea by jerry harvey who says there are three people trying to decide where we should go for dinner - one doesn't want a bautne; the second wants to travel while the third would rather stay at home with their family.