Byron Katie has this phrase that's the first act of war when you come in hot yes and your partner is now on the defense immediately. That shuts down all the conversations absolutely. So let's hear part of says I don't want to talk about sex ever but from a loving curious softer place we can say so what I hear you saying is that sex is not something that you you need to talk about right now and then there might even be like time to diffuse it. The amago theory of listening me listening is so key in our relationship with it is yeah I can explain to itIt's really just the theory of it's a it's a tool but when you're talking

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