In some ways, it's easier to seek social acceptance and be seen as cool or an ingroup member within these kind of settings. But in the other way, it does take a lot of effort and it takes a lot of dedication, I guess, to a specific way of living. What makes someone cool or sets people apart within subcultures is often incredibly specific. There are trends that we have to both follow and violate - how do we know what to follow and what not to follow?