The best thing to do is not be emotionally vulnerable to begin with. Growing up with nine 11 has no impact on attachment, but it just sort of makes me wonder a little bit. Evenin this, the first two minutes of the shower one, 60 seconds and 90 seconds of the show were they kind of talk about the hand that rue was dealt when rue came into the world. That's something that i think is really, really important to think about in terms of addictions.