Is My Partner Willing and Capable of Changing?

When i opened my mouth, i was colld negative. I was selfish for wanting things to change. I should be happy with the way things were. I wanted to feel like we were on the same page. So problem number one is that you have this problem. For me, it was passive aggressiveness. It was denial. It was justvaluing my opinion. Was not coming home when you say you are going to come home. Stuff that was happening with the inlaws. It was stuff that was happening at work. Various things happened over and over and over that i felt needed to be addressed and so those were the initial problems. But then i realized that when i addressed these