Is Your Child's Academic Success Linked to Your Academic Success?

iReporter: It seems like there's increasingly a system whereby we're driven to test to a, demonstrate knowledge. But that success is often pushed by parents who view their success as a parent tied up to their child's academic success. I'm wondering, can you expend on that with some of your thoughts?  I've seen sort of two two groups of parents around there. Ah, i think more about am, would i try what i what i don't want to do, i guess, is to apply unnecessary pressure.