The Inevitable Suffering of Human Existence

Suffering is part of being a baby. Don't be freaked out by the concept of when your child is ball and crying when you're not around, that they're in great distress. When those needs aren't met on a kind of extreme level, thats insecure attachmentsan problems emerge. Not all of us are going to come away from infancy with a complete secure attachment. Some of us will have a bit of an insecure attachment that we'll carry into adult hood because at certain points our attachment needs met when we were infants.