Is Your Body a Source of Pleasure?

I think especially as a black person and as a black woman of like your body gets to be a source of pleasure and not just a source of like commodification and fetishization. So I think that it's something new for me as well. Like saying like I probably won't come isn't the same thing as saying don't spend time pleasuring me. And whether you come or not, like my ego is not tied up in that. It actually just feels good for me to be with your body in this way.