It's quite common for young men to need to grow the hell up when they become dads right? Mm hmm. It's quite a normal experience to have higher talents for risk and less concern for your well being or anything else until you have a child. Men do go through quite a bit of maturing real quick. Many of them not all of them unfortunately but when they are set to become dads and expectations on themselves and society change for many Unfortunately we all know way too many stories where that's not true.