Don’t Help Someone Unless They Ask For Your Help, INFJs
The INFJ Whisperer
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The Dance of Anger by Harriet Lerner
We tend to be over functioners. We kind of do more than te people around us, we can't take care of them by doing more. You're actually hindering them, you know, because you're becoming their crutch. Mentally prepare yourself as the person who's getting red-faced and angry for someone else. They're going to question your loyalty or whatever else. It's like dragging a kid to the dentist - nobody likes it but this is how we learn.
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