Lasson: What questions or what answers could our kids give us that would affect us emotionally? Lasson: You're discrediting them when you come at em with an answer already formed in your mind and you're asking question, but really you're trying to get them to bite on the answer that you're feeding them. And then, dad, stop talking and let them. Let them answer you, and maybe prod a little bit here and there. But i guess my point is, ask questions. Thereis question that nehemiah asked. And the answer actually broke his heart. The answer was notoh, i'm leaving as soon as i can, likeit within