Agan: She seems to have won like some sort of weird lottery, or like the guy who treated her like schit seemed like he did turn out to be a pretty good husband. But mos people don't win that lottery. In like 99 out of a hundred of these cases where somebody treats you like this, the ending is he knocks on the door and you take him back, and then he treats you like shit. Agan: It's so shidy. Part of what she's trying to do is remind people in relationships, and predominantly women in relationships, that they have agency.