Are We Fearing Being Uncomfortable?

We have all these fears, including this lack of confidence in our ability to have conflicts with people. So when that could be potentially threatened, i think that strikes some accord with fear in us. Our sense of self is part and parcel the people that we view as so close to us,. And so herding them is essentially hurting ourselves. We are uncomfortable being uncomfortable. Would you say that that being uncomfortable is an area where we actually grow? Oh, it is.