The Principle of Charity in a Debate

We should at least give one another the benefit of the doubt. Can we agree on that at least? We need to come back to the principle of charity with one another and not pick every line or word apart. As followers of jesus, we are to, quote, make every effort to keep the unity of the spirit in the bond of peace. Listen to that command. And it is a command in context, as from paul's letter to the ephesians, chapter four. Are we humble?