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(Matt Monday): How to Stop Obsessing Over Someone You Want

Love Life With Matthew Hussey

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Are You Reluctant to Be a Participant in Real Life?

We are reluctant to be a participant in real life because we're afraid. The more you build it up in your head, the greater the collision with reality when you engage with it. Stop guessing, stop assuming, stop fantasizing, stop future projecting and give yourself a new motto: go find out. There are no points in life for winning in the fantasy world but if we can see someone and rather than live with the idea of what it could be with that person, we can go and get a yes or a no and then proceed or move on accordingly.

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