The Gift of Spiritual Authority

I was never shown like a picture of umbrella or covering, but this idea of spiritual authority that you had to run to or be over. I'm very grateful I did not grow up in that. My mother was a very strong spiritual force and she was our superintendent of Sunday schools in the church I grew up in. And I had a pastor who gloriously did not feel threatened by my mother and just was able to bless her. That was really sad for me to watch. So would you just speak to that person who right now is feeling really stuck in the midst of this kind of church-hert situation? Please go seek wise counsel outside of your church and ask God to give you