What If, the Unknown?

In order for one lover to have beginners mind safely, the relationship has to support discovery and curiosity. That what if possibility a is, it's kind of like the unknown, and it's exciting and it's inherently vulnerable. And we feel more alive because we are having to be so responsive to each moment,. Because it is new, or we are seeing it as new. The real novelty is in our own mind set that can find wonder in every moment.