How to Be Honest in Non-Violent Communication

I was working with some psychiatrists and psychologists, showing how to use this kind of honesty in their relationships with patience. But if the other person thinks we have single mindedness of purpose to get our request adhered to, it changes the game. Then it makes our request into demands. So i wasn't surprised when i got a free diagnosis from one of the psychiagists. She said, doctor rosenberg, don't you see that when you suggest that we also reveal ourselves in this way, openly re our feelings needs request? Don't you see what you're doing? You're allowing your narcisism to interfere with your ability as a therapist. Another psachiatrist